Lifting In Arms Factor:
Well, lifting wife in arms by her beloved husband and then taking her from place to another in home, public place, hotel etc is fairly entertaining and making people happy too much. Housewives feel happy when they see in serials husband lifts his spouse in the event she walks bare feet to a temple to fulfill her wish (for husband's prosperity and good health) to a mythical God and hurts her foot.
Women keep expecting the same from their husbands and imagine that may be one day their husbands would lift them inside their arms and bring them from a living area to bedroom or from vegetable market to home just walking and individuals are wondering and wondering and saying inside "Why? Is this a miracle? Oh, she is definitely very lucky." But in fact many husbands in India seem quite reluctant to lift their wives for any reason especially after marriage. Exceptions might be there in certain rare cases. When husbands (before marriage) were lovers they must have lifted their lovers but after they're in a responsibility role they get tired, bored and in some manner don't feel happy to accomplish such things for well-known reasons. Women complain too for their husbands after they watch serial actors (characters) lifting actresses inside their arms. Please have an in depth consider the following conversation between a husband and wife (both middle aged) while watching lifting in arms scene in TV serial:-
The husband is busy taking care of his laptop and simultaneously watching TV serial together with his wife to create her happy. He's least interested in television serials but sometimes he agrees to fulfill his wife's wish. It's 8pm. Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Watch Online Husband is sitting beside his wife just to hear her in the event she passes any comment about any character's behavior etc. The wife went totally into her favorite serial. A couple of minutes later, all of an immediate, she starts clapping her hands; the husband is startled, he discusses her with wonder and then moves his eyes to the tv screen. He asks his wife with only a little curiosity "What happened dear?" The wife is busy in watching the scene. She doesn't hear him. He asks her again "I never saw you so happy. You clapped your hands. I could see that there isn't any cricket match going on only at that time. Can you please tell me what made you clapped suddenly?" Now the wife discusses her husband with some anger inside and says "You won't believe me if I tell you." She mutes the channel while the commercial break comes and keeps the remote in her hand. Husband "Obviously, I'll believe you."
Wife "Didn't you watch the way in which Geeta's husband lifted her in his arms and took her to the temple? Actually she hurt her foot. And now it's bleeding. So he lifted. So sweet!!! So romantic!!! But what I feel honey; she shouldn't have gone bare feet to the temple. What do you think?"
The husband listens to his wife attentively and then asks a question casually "Who's Geeta, dear?"
"Oh, I am talking about this character. You know she is my favorite. You seem to almost forget all my personal favorite actors."
"Oh, how do I forget that? Only this Geeta I didn't know."
"I wish my husband takes me to the temple the same as that. She is indeed lucky to own that strong man. I am feeling so happy you know. Have you ever taken me like this even once? See how much her husband loves her. That's the way to express love. You have never expressed your love like Gaeta's husband. You know, he says I love one to her almost every day. And just look at yourself."
"Ha Ha!! You know Gaeta's husband isn't her real husband so he is able to say 'I love you' to her on a regular basis." He has a pause and then continues "That's just a serial my dear. It's a fiction. Those things aren't real. And just look at you and your weight. How do I lift you when you're so heavy?"
"I know, you'd say that. There is a constant care. That's why I watch this serial. They show how other husbands behave making use of their wives and there is you should not remind me of my weight again and again. I am trying my best. I stopped eating sweets now."
"Yes, I know for six days you follow those ideas and on the seventh day you relish." He starts laughing loudly.
"You are able to never understand my feelings. You're so rude and cool." She turns off the TV angrily and gets into one other room. The husband quietly sits down on the sofa together with his laptop with a smile on his face.
From the aforementioned conversation it's possible to conclude how men and women from middle class families talk and discuss characters of daily soaps, the way the conversation starts with and ends with, how fiction make a difference people's life indirectly, how women interpret fictional things and conclude about something righteously. Some fictional things can easily raise women's expectations from their husbands.
Lifting in arms factor could possibly be quite a heavy one for family men but if tried hard, could be beneficial for family and an inspiration for children.
If most men than women watch lifting in arms scene on TV attentively and if it persuades them to do something than simply to view, the happiness in women's life would undoubtedly be doubled. And if women become happy by their husband's expressing love differently, many homes in India would certainly be flooded with great happiness.
Replacement factors:
Indian common masses are very emotional. They get attached to serial characters quickly and get accustomed to see the characters in daily soaps that they see on TV for an extended time. They get shocked when any major character is replaced such as a main character or supporting actress or actor, mother in law, father in law, brother in law etc who play major roles in daily soaps. Sometimes it happens that even after replacement when viewers watch that serial, they keep remembering the old character at heart and think that she or he is still acting. This happens with many people. Humans take time for any change to just accept in general when a current character is replaced with a brand new one. They take the time to accept the new one. Somehow all these specific things aren't considered by directors and producers who launch them before launching their family dramas on regional TV channels. Replacement of any favorite character upsets the viewers after they get accustomed to that specific character. Read this following assumptive example: A couple gets married with the blessings of elders and starts staying together in a home. Only two of these and 2 years have passed. Husband and wife have quite got used to each others' presence. They shop, eat, drink, fight, share feelings and have fun together. One day each day, the wife just leaves the home without informing her husband. Once the husband returns back home from office, he finds another woman who claims to be his wife, tells him to forget the first one and convinces him he won't have chance to generally meet the first one. What'll happen in cases like this? Natural reaction in such situation could be starting shock, sadness, insecurity, depression and confusion. Any sudden change can be pleasant or unpleasant or both. Although some men would like to have such surprises some amount of time in their life but used to factor and emotions will come in between. It's this that exactly happens with viewers when replacement of their favorite actors is done all of an immediate by a team of TV serials which could be avoided if taken necessary steps for the sake of viewers due to whom they have the ability to show whatever content they wish to to be able to entertain them.
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